Feels so damn good to me
It picks me up don’t wanna come down
You got me spinning all around
You need to know
I’ve got somebody
But still it ain’t that type of party
I don’t know what made me think of posting this video today but this is by far one of my favorite songs. I remember listening to Next Lifetime as a child and I was hooked. Here is Erykah Badu for your listening pleasure..
What is your favorite song by Ms. Badu?
Oh…. Happy Veteran’s Day!
There is nothing more shocking than an unplanned pregnancy. But what about those pregnancies that happen within the first 6 months of a dating? I happen to know two women that got pregnant within 2 weeks of meeting their boo’s. One guy dipped immediately while the other one stayed around until the baby was 3 months old. This guy eventually came back only to get this chick pregnant again. A few months later we found out he was engaged to some white chick. In this case, I don’t feel sorry for the girl. Not only did she have two kids by this douche bag but she popped out two more with no husband in sight.
I understand this woman has no control over men choosing to stick around, but discretion should have been used at the very least.
Most of us can agree that the sole blame is on the woman when she becomes pregnant. Men don’t realize they are equally at fault when the sperm meets the egg. Not only that, but men tend to leave it up to women to be responsible for preventing pregnancy when they do the very least to prevent it. I often hear men say, “Well if I had to take a pill everyday to prevent a pregnancy I would.” But these are the same men who won’t pull out or put on a condom because the feeling is not the same. I understand women have several options when it comes to preventing pregnancy but don’t assume; ask questions.! I also won’t be naive and say some women won’t try to get pregnant purposely because they do. But men are also guilty of the exact same thing–trapping women.
So the lesson for today: make that horny, sex crazed, nut wear a condom!! Because if you get pregnant within a six month period you will either have to face being pregnant alone, get blamed for the pregnancy, have the man question whether or not the baby is his, or your guy will step up to the plate and take care of his responsibility
like you automatically have to do.
Have you know someone to get pregnant within months of dating? How did things turn out?
I don’t know about you but that 60 minutes went by waaaay to fast. I couldn’t wait to see what Porsha had to say. So like you, my eyes and ears were glued to Bravo. I’m happy that Porsha is a soon to be divorced woman because all those secrets are now tumbling out of the closet *rubbing hands together*. Porsha seems like a genuine person so I’m going to eat up every negative thing she says about Kordell and run with it. Do I believe Kordell locked her out of the house after her “curfew”, why yes I do. Do I believe he is an undercover brother, YUP! Do I believe he left her in the hospital alone for a week.. you betcha! I can’t believe that hammer head mofo. I’m sure her mother and sister knew exactly what was going on in her marriage but kept quiet because it was not in there place to air out his dirty laundry. But what I can’t wrap my head around is why Porsha would be willing to stay married to someone who she suspects to be down low, also someone who is clearly controlling, possessive, and inconsiderate? What does that say about her as an individual? Sure, I believe in the sanctity of marriage but this clearly isn’t a normal marriage or normal issues for that matter.
Kenya, Kenya, Kenya… why are you still tripping about Walter honey? This issue with Walter was dead (at least to me) after season one. Understandably, you felt some kind of way about him being a NeNe’s wedding. But so what? Put your big girl panties on and be a grown woman….. Now that I’ve gotten that out the way, I will say that I really like Kenya and I hate to see her at odds with EVERY woman on the show. However I am curious to see what story line will be surrounding Kenya this season. Will there be a new man? Will she make up with the girls? Will this thing with Apollo just be for shits and giggles? I’m more than ready to see what Kenya has up her sleeves.
On to Kandi and Todd. Im all for Kandi finding love. I’m really happy that her and Todd are in love and have been going strong for 2 years now. But I am semi curious about this guy Todd (I guess mainly due to the accusations of him being an opportunist). For Kandi and Riley’s sake, I hope ole girl gets a prenup. I’m sure the house “they” bought was really paid for with Kandi’s coins. If Todd’s job is hot and cold now, how is he able to provide for a family? Most of the weight will be on Kandi’s shoulders, and if she is ok with that, that’s all that matters…. I guess.
I was so jealous to see NeNe’s room filled to the brim with wedding gifts (it must be nice to know rich folks). According to I Dream of NeNe, her shows were cancelled so Im curious to see what’s in store for her next. And as far as Phae Phae goes, congrats on the new house. Btw, Phaedra I hope this is a scam you, Apollo, and Kenya concocted to keep you three relevant on the show because issues with your husband and Kenya floating around ain’t cute honey. Last but not least, I was saying a silent prayer that Cynthia’s business wasn’t going under. In fact, it’s doing just the opposite. Kudos to her for making progress unlike other people… Peter (because he is an issue within himself).
Who are you rooting for this season? And what do you think is going to happen on the Real Housewives of Atlanta in the coming weeks?
Welcome to What You Allow first annual costume bonanza! I’m going to show you the best and worst costumes celebrity style.
Anywho, here are my favorite Halloween costumes from some of your favorite celebs.
Here are some of the worst (well technically these aren’t Halloween costumes but they sure did scare the hell out of me).
And for the finale… my all time FAVORITE celeb picture… the one and only…..
I hope you enjoyed my first Halloween costume bonanza.. tata for now!
Can’t we all just get along?
It’s so depressing to see friendships fall apart. But when your friendship falls apart on national tv, that’s a whole nother story. One minute these gal were partying and the next, they are trying to pull off wigs. Here are some friendships that dissolved right before our very eyes.
Jennifer and Evelyn
My heart went out for these two when their friendship went kaput. I will NEVER understand why women get upset with each other when someone decides to keep it 100. It’s sad that these two still choose to live separate lives. Maybe things are better this way.
NeNe and Kim Zolciak
This is another friendship I hoped would work out. These two fell out EVERY season seemingly. With all the drama on twitter and Nene talking about Kim sleeping with married men. And Kim talking about Nene needing someone to cosign for her home. I couldn’t stop my head from spinning from all the madness. Aside from their many cat fights, you could tell they genuinely enjoyed each other’s friendship but at the end of the day, it didn’t matter I assume. I will say it was refreshing to see Kim and NeNe hug it out at NeNe’s wedding.
Tamar Braxton and April Daniels
Wth went wrong? Someone stopped calling the other but why? These two surprised me when they sat down at lunch discussing their friendship. I got the impression that these ladies were friends because their husband’s were really close. But it was still a sisterhood. It’s sad nonetheless.
Tamra Barney and Vicki Gunvalson
Although these bitties are a bit old. I really liked them together. They were friends for years and their kids were really close. I realized after seeing these two fall out, that being friends even in your 40′s can lead to destruction.
Which reality tv friendship(s) do you guys and girls miss the most?